While the male eye zooms in on a particular element to the exclusion of all else, a womans gaze flickers from one tedious task to the next, to the point where we cant distinguish between the importance of mopping the kitchen floor and achieving world peace.
If Im with a man, is that going to prevent me from achieving my goal? What sacrifices will I have to make in terms of being myself, if Im with a man? Something that young women find out really quickly is that when you start dating, all of a sudden youre supposed to have a role. Youre not allowed to just be yourself.
By: Candace Bushnell